Archive for July, 2012


friends & communication

so i realised a few days ago that my past few post have not been very uplifting and it worried me – I believe that it reflects my current statues. Be it mindset, emotion or what have you. However before i go to depressing this is about a friends.

Not a day after i realised this about my posts a friend mentioned that it seems – by reading the blog – i am frustrated. 🙂 Now i’m not sure  i’m an open book or that she just knows me but is good to have a person that can put a mirror up saying >have you had a look at yourself lately,well what is going on there?

So i had a look and I think one of my current neglectful doings to myself  is opening not opening myself up. I am in my own world and trying to do things with me myself and I. Trying to get through life by my own. As you should know its not good.

So today’s post is a request to make sure you are talking to your friends and family. Make sure the lines of communication are open with people that you care about and that you know care about you. If you feel you don’t have friends, get some > by playing a sport or going to a pub and playing cards or a hobby that you dabbled in when you were younger. Surrounding yourself with life gives you life. (shotgun!!) Alsoo try getting hold of the good friends you lost communication with. Enjoy!! 🙂

Surrounding yourself with life gives you life. – J I Heeley


4th of July WOW moment

So it seems i want a something for my money.

I went to a 4th of July celebration tonight. Big American  fate / fairground with fire works 🙂 I had AW root beer, Mountain Dew and two corn dogs. I found myself standing in many of these pay and play to win a prize type games.  People were walking around with massive bears and tigers. Every time however i could not spend the money to have a go. Even if it was skill based games like darts. There was something stopping me>  I had a WOW moment. I found that i value my money to much . In fact not even the money.

The principle … I give you money you give me … food, assets, something for something sounds logical. Not I give you money for the possibility of a reward. I think that is it! People want to pay little and receive great reward.

The problem lies in the fact that people get it right.  My mind is ticking at a rapid speed currently. This applies to many things. This is why people play the lottery, my immediate thought after that is people will be drawn to it after they see there is a chance, so you need one person to win then done.  I wonder how much money the vendors make, or % profit?

Hmm well enough of my babble. I had a great time tonight being kid like.

I encourage you to Grow and keep on surprising yourself. Have these WOW moments. Life should be exciting not a drag day to day. If you have to many off days, grey days, or bland this sucks days. Change it up! o and Stay true to who YOU are.

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"once you have decided what you believe; know that the truth is also out there" - J I Heeley

“Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men” –Johann Wolfgang Goethe